Dating Traditionally in A Hook Up Culture
The current conditions of dating culture is ruled by “hookups” and recently the term “Netflix and Chill” has become popular describing a low key date that involves Netflix films and takeout from the comfort of one’s home. It’s frustrating for the men and women who seek to date traditionally to be bombarded with lack luster dates and booty call request, and as a way to help give these people a ray of hope, I wrote a piece for Blackdoctor.org that gives tips on how to date traditionally in a hookup culture. Take a look at an exert from my Article on Blackdoctor.org and read the rest of the piece by clicking on the link at the bottom of the page.
“Netflix and chill” has been the topic of many memes and discussions recently on social media and it speaks to the current conditions of the dating scene. “Hooking up” and “kicking back” have replaced the traditional first date activities where serious daters actually invested time in getting to know each other beyond physical attraction.
It’s sad to say, but the average new age millennial has lost sight of what it actually means to court. Tinder, SoulSwipe and apps of the like are partially responsible for the lack of substance-filled interaction in the dating arena, but their existence doesn’t mean it’s the end of traditional dating all together. Existing within the shadows of hookup culture are hopeless romantics who continue to appreciate the aroma of fresh flowers and the ambiance of a candle lit dinner.
But how can one that fits in this category go about dating in a culture that seems to have lost its romantic touch? If you’re looking to date seriously in today’s sexually charged climate, here are a few pieces of advice to keep you off of the couch.
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